11 Common LGBT Family Planning Terms That You Should Know


The language of LGBTQ family planning can be a little dense and daunting. There are a lot of medical terms and acronyms, and if you don’t know all the jargon, it’s possible that you don’t know all your options and steps for creating kiddos.

You’ve probably heard some of the terms on this list–many of these have become common knowledge. But sometimes the actual field definitions are a little more specific and reveal important details. Part of our job at Gay Parents To Be is making the process of family building easier for the families we work with, and for the LGBTQ community in general. So we’ve put together this list!

We’re happy to provide this mini dictionary of standard LGBTQ family building terms. Read through to get to know and clarify this kind of confusing language. And then, fav. or bookmark this page, so you’ll always be ready for a quick brush up. Maybe for a sneaky preview on your phone in the waiting room before a doctor’s appointment or consultation 😊.

LGBTQ Family Planning Terms That You Should Know

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What is a Reproductive Endocrinologist?

We’re starting with the professional title of our Gay Parents To Be doctors. This definition is a little longer, but the more you know about our doctors’ training and passion, the better.

First, endocrinology is the field of studying and treating hormone-related issues in the body. So a board-certified Reproductive Endocrinologist (REI) is a doctor who studies and treats hormones related to the human reproductive system.

They specialize in:

  • In vitro fertilization (IVF)
  • Tubal factor infertility
  • Male factor infertility
  • Fertility preservation
  • Endometriosis
  • Other disorders of the female reproductive tract, including PCOS, Pituitary dysfunction and uterine abnormalities

Reproductive Endocrinologists go through a lot of training – they’re dedicated and passionate about what they do. After working through a typical medical residency program, future REIs then apply for highly competitive 3-year programs for additional training. Once they’re in, they focus exclusively on studying hormones and the reproductive system. Therefore, REIs have approx. 15 years (or more) of medical training. And then to become an REI officially, these doctors pass rigorous testing and receive board certification by the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology in two fields: Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility.

What is an Intra-Uterine Insemination (IUI)?

IUI is a technique that delivers sperm directly into a uterus. You might know this by a more general term, IUI allows better sperm delivery to the fallopian tube–it helps the sperm and egg interact in closer proximity. It’s a standard treatment for mild and moderate deficits in the semen analysis, which can indicate low volume, motility, or morphology of sperm. IUI treatments are typically used in conjunction with medications that increase the number of eggs per cycle and trigger ovulation. IUI is a triple threat approach: Better sperm delivery, perfect targets for the sperm, and ideal timing.

What is IVF?

IVF stands for in vitro fertilization. IVF referes to a series of procedures with the aim of achieving a pregnancy. A person’s ovaries are stimulated to produce multiple eggs, a process called “superovulation” (yes, this totally sounds like a fertility ). The eggs are then retrieved and combined with sperm in a laboratory to create embryos. Subsequently, embryos can be transferred to a uterus to start a pregnancy.

  • Egg Retrieval is one step in IVF. The eggs (oocytes) are collected from the ovaries with a minimally-invasive surgical procedure.
  • Embryo Transfer is another step in IVF. This is the medical process of placing an embryo (or embryos) into a uterus.

What is PGT-A?

Preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidy is when embryos are tested to figure out which ones have normal chromosomes – meaning they have best chance of a healthy and full-term pregnancy. Missing or additional numbers of chromosomes in embryos is one prevalent cause of miscarriage and implantation failure.

As you know, science advances quickly, and terminology changes all the time! This test is now referred to as "PGT-A", but was previously called "PGS" - or preimplantation genetic screening. So you may still see other Googlers asking the question "what is PGS?"

What is PGT-M? [What is PGD?]

Preimplantation genetic testing for monogenic diseases is when embryos are tested for single gene defects. This test can help to identify the embryos carrying those genes and prevent that disease from being passed along to your future child. 

This test is now referred to as "PGT-M", but was previously called "PGD" - or preimplantation genetic diagnosis.

What is a Sperm Donor?

A sperm donor is a person who donates sperm to a pregnancy for another person(s). Sometimes they’re  known and sometimes they’re anonymous. RMACT does not operate its own sperm bank, but we’re able to refer patients to an FDA-registered and compliant sperm bank to select a sperm donor who’s a good fit for you.

What is an Egg Donor?

An egg donor is a person who donates eggs to a pregnancy for another person(s). Like a sperm donor, sometimes this is a known person, and sometimes they’re an anonymous donor.

What is an Intended Parent(s)?

The person or people who will be legally responsible for caring for and raising the child. This status is regardless of who has given birth to the child or if the intended parent(s) are genetically linked to the child. Maybe you’re reading this because you’re an Intended Parent! Or you’re intending to be! 💜

What is a Surrogate?

A surrogate is a person who carries a pregnancy to term for another family. You’ve probably heard the term “surrogate” and “surrogacy” a lot–these terms are now common knowledge, used to describe someone carrying a child for another person. But the medical terminology has evolved beyond that basic definition, and so now the word “surrogate” is often interchanged with “Gestational Carrier.” Read more below.

What is a Gestational Carrier?

A gestational carrier is also a person who carries a pregnancy to term for another family . This is a newer term, but essentially synonymous with “surrogate”. In the past, some families were formed using traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate contributed both eggs and uterus to the process. However, this process is legally complex, as the surrogate is genetically linked to the child in those instances, and is much less commonly practiced today as a result. Now you know a fancy, newer term that you can use to impress your family building team. 🤓

What is Reciprocal IVF?

With reciprocal in vitro fertilization, one person donates eggs to their partner, and their partner carries the pregnancy. For some LGBTQ couples, this is a way that two cisgender women can physically participate in the carrying of a pregnancy. One partner donates eggs (goes through superovulation with fertility medicines to produce multiple eggs and undergoes egg retrieval -you know what these terms mean now!). After egg retrieval, those eggs are combined with designated donor sperm in the IVF laboratory. The carrying partner then goes on medication to prepare her uterus, and then embryos are transferred.

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Lisa Rosenthal

Lisa Rosenthal

Working with Gay Parents To Be and our partner fertility clinic, Illume Fertility, as a dedicated Patient Advocate gives Lisa Rosenthal an opportunity to expand her passion and commitment to reproductive health and family building. Lisa is committed to supporting all families in having the families that they desire, in the ways that work best for them.

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