As you begin to think about building your family and becoming a dad, one of the first questions that comes up is financing — how much is this going to cost? Is your insurance going to cover this, and if not, what resources are there to tap into? At Gay Parents To Be and Illume Fertility, we understand that this is a big hurdle for many hopeful dads. Our team is here to help you overcome it.
After your initial consultation, your dedicated Insurance and Billing Advocate will reach out to you to do a benefits check, discuss your personal coverage, and explain the financial plans that we offer. Although insurance coverage and the cost of each journey varies from patient to patient, below, you will find a resource guide complete with a list of FAQs to help you understand the costs.
Surrogacy costs can be broken down into four major categories: IVF clinic costs, surrogacy agency and legal fees, and egg donor & surrogate compensation.
Surrogacy costs can vary depending on the clinic and surrogacy agency you use, your specific requirements for an egg donor and gestational carrier, and the part of the country in which you live.
Because of this, the "ballpark estimate" for total surrogacy costs varies greatly, but the average cost of surrogacy in the United States is around $140,000. You may see cheaper alternatives advertised in other countries, but it is not possible to guarantee that your rights, your surrogate's rights, and the rights of your future child will be equally protected.
The total cost of surrogacy includes:
Keep scrolling for information and cost estimates on each piece of your surrogacy journey.
If you're doing research on IVF clinics and associated costs, you may notice that there seems to be a broad range - this is normal! Clinic costs vary based on your personal fertility journey, as well as your benefits and insurance coverage. If you're planning out your surrogacy budget, the IVF clinic costs typically range from $29,000 - $50,000.
Your fertility clinic and it's staff will help you with many steps during your surrogacy journey, including:
Many clinics now offer versions of a guarantee plan, a higher cost may cover multiple or unlimited embryo transfers. For some dads-to-be, this option offers financial security when budgeting for surrogacy.
If you're worried about the IVF costs for a surrogacy journey, learn more about fertility insurance for the LGBTQ community and family building grants here.
Egg donors are typically compensated between $6,000 and $15,000. This might seem like a lot of money, but it's important to remember that your donor plays an important role in your family building journey!
In order to pass egg donor screening, a donor has to complete the following tests:
Choosing a donor from your clinic's in-house donor pool (if available) can typically offer a lower-cost donor option. For dads with specific criteria for their egg donor (graduate degree, specific height, hair or eye color) egg donor agencies may provide more choices. However, keep in mind that working with an egg donor agency will have associated fees.
Surrogate compensation can range from $25,000-$76,000, depending on a variety of factors including:
Choosing your surrogate is a big decision, with many factors to consider, but don't worry, your team at your surrogacy agency is there to guide you through the process! Click to learn more about choosing and connecting with your surrogate.
The fees paid to your surrogacy agency (if you choose to work with one) are one of the larger "cost buckets" involved in the surrogacy process and that's because your agency is responsible for many tasks.
When looking into agency costs and associated fees, you should be critical and ask questions! This agency fee chart is a good place to start when asking your agency what is included and what costs you should expect outside of their fee structure.
We understand that the costs of surrogacy can seem overwhelming, but planning ahead, building a budget, and even taking out a loan are some ways that dads-to-be have made their dreams a reality.
Financial grants and assistance for members of the LGBTQ community are another way that many dads have been able to take these surrogacy steps.
Click through for a complete list of LGBTG-friendly grants & charities for family building.
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